TEACH THIS 7 SKILLS FOR YOUR CHILDREN, IT IS IMPORTANT IN THE FUTURE
What your child learns as he grows and develops can help him succeed later on. He needs to know the most important life skills for future. And if he puts it into his daily routine, your child will grow into a mature person and can bring success later.
Then, what kind of skills do we need to teach? Ellen Galinsky, author of “Mind in the Making,” shares seven life skills needed for success in all aspects of life, including school, relationships and work, which can be instilled in children from a young age.
- Focus and Self Control
Children will develop well if we accustom them to follow schedules, habits, and routines. And this will provide security to them and help children learn to control themselves and focus. Talk to him about what to expect every day, organize the house so your child knows where to put shoes, coats, and personal items. We live in a noisy and disturbing world, so quiet activities, such as reading books or solving puzzles together can help children improve focus.
- Taking Perspective
Thinking about other people’s perspectives may be something that is foreign to most children, but it can be developed. Little by little invite them to learn to observe about how other people feel, then discuss casually.
Children need personal interaction and touch every day to build healthy social-emotional skills, including the ability to understand and communicate with others. Children need to learn how to “read” social cues and listen carefully.
They must consider what they want to communicate and what is the most effective way to share it. Talking with adults can help build this skill.
- Making Connections
The more connections made, the more meaning and meaning is obtained from the world. Young children begin to see relationships and patterns as they sort toys and socks. Simple actions such as choosing clothes that are weather-appropriate help build connections.
- Critical Thinking
Your child lives in a complex world where adults are required to analyze information and make decisions about many things every day.
One of the best ways to build critical thinking is through open play. Make sure the children have time every day to play alone or with friends.
These games may include taking a role (pretending to be a firefighter or superhero), building structures, playing board games, or playing outside (physical games), such as hide and seek.
Through play, children formulate hypotheses, take risks, try out their ideas, make mistakes, and find solutions. These are all important elements in building critical thinking.
- Take the Challenge
One of the most important traits that can be developed in life is resilience, such as being able to face challenges, rise again from failure, and keep on trying.
Encourage your child to try new things and allow for reasonable risks, such as climbing trees or riding a bicycle. Offer a new challenge when he seems ready.
- Independent and Want to Learn
A child who likes learning to be an adult who rarely gets bored in life.
To encourage love of learning, try to limit television and encourage a lot of reading, playing, and open exploration.
Create curiosity and enthusiasm for learning in your own life by visiting a library together, for example.